How Working in the NFL Helped me Embody my Feminine

I’ve worked the past three seasons as a TV Producer for a NFL show called NFL EndZone and in this position it has allowed me to really deepen my feminine embodiment & let me tell you why…

For those of you who don’t know, I’ve worked in professional sports production my entire career (& still freelance cuz I love it so much, you’ll see me on NFL sidelines soon).

It is an expression & embodiment of my Venus (feminine) in Sagittarius (sports, travel & broadcast) it's what makes me so happy, fulfilled & alive!

Don’t you love when astrology translates so literally, lol.

In my previous job working with the top female athletes in the World in professional tennis, it was a totally different experience because I was working with bad ass women.

And I’m honestly used to, friends with & surrounded with strong & powerful women, so it was no biggie for me.

It was easy for me to ask them for things, support & be of service to them & be their friend.

But when I transitioned into working in the NFL & with strong & powerful men, I was wayyyyy out of my 

COMFORT ZONE.

 Let me explain…

In my role as a TV producer for NFL EndZone I have to organize & ask a lot of current & ex professional players for interviews.

At practice, at press junkets and before, during & after the game.

Yup, that means I have to go into the locker rooms post game in the madness media scrum.

This in and of itself is an entirely unique & wild experience (& stories) for a different day…

But basically I have to go up to strange & famous men who just worked their asses off for 4 hours, are beat up, battered, bruised, sweaty, smelly, half dressed, just out of the shower, dripping in diamonds, wanting to get the hell out of there for INTERVIEWS.

The entire experience of just walking INTO the locker rooms used to dysregulate me & send me OUT OF BODY three years ago.

But let me tell you it was the BEST PRACTICE there ever was for THE FEMININE ASK (this is something I teach you how to do inside Venusian B!tch)

To be grounded in my body, open in my heart & ask these men TO MEET MY NEEDS!

In fact, after 3 years of practice, my boss has given me the nickname “the locker room shark” because of all the interviews I’ve been able to get with the star players of the team.

Because here’s the thing, I just DECIDED TO GO FOR IT & ASK!

I became okay with getting a NO (in three years I’ve only gotten one NO & it was because he was running late to get his kids).

I became the GO TO person for other media who would get me to ask players for interviews because I was more likely to get a yes & they could piggy back off my interviews.

And not only that, but these men would say things like…

“For you, yes, I’ll do the interview”

“Just because you asked”

“Anything for you”

Because this is the art of the open-hearted, embodied, FEMININE ASK.

An embodied masculine man will always MEET the feminine ask.

It’s just how they’re wired because it makes them feel good to provide.

And now, when I have to ask for my needs in real life, I'm GOOD!

(This is something not a lot of women know how to ask for & then end up being bitter & resentful, but don't worry there is an art to it & I teach you how in VB)!

Through this job it’s given me the ability to be so much more InBODYed, grounded, open-hearted & empowered in my feminine energy.

It’s given me the BEST practice of self-sourcing my own safety, being confident in myself & asking for what I want.

Ask for what you want, be unattached & radiate that feminine light because this is how you inspire a man’s masculine & this is how the World mirrors, matches & meets you, too.

All of this & MORE is what we’re diving into inside Venusian B!tch!

There’s still time to join! 

Inside Venusian B!tch we are…

💗 Healing your inner feminine

💗 Raising your standards & boundaries

💗 Doing the shadow & identity work required to own your power as a woman

💗 Learning how to emotionally regulate so you stop being reactive, impulsive & self sabotaging relationships

💗 Understanding how to get your needs met so you come into relationship confident & clear

💗 Developing a relationship with your own energy so you can create whatever you want

💗 Making Manifesting a way of life